"The 304 Woman"
May 14, 2023 | Pastor Charles P. Akins, Sr.
Passage: Proverbs 31:10-31
Introduction:
Welcome to the age of 304 women “Modern Woman” who truly hate men and blame them for everything wrong in their lives! No matter what it is, a man is responsible for it! Their cat died, a man did it! They lose their job, a man did it! They gain weight, a man did it!
Proposition:
God has a special design he created. A perfect mold that he desires all men and women to fit into. The Prov 31 Woman is this example. Surrender to God and become the Prov 31 woman/man!
Body:
Who:
Speaks directly to women, but indirectly to any that would obey God.
What:
A Treatise on the character of virtuous people.
When:
During the reign of King Solomon in Jerusalem, between 1015 and 975 B.C.
Why:
To teach the purpose and effect of a virtuous woman upon family and society
Where:
Jerusalem
How:
It paints an accurate picture of the life of a true, submitted servant of God.
What ever happened to our “Real Mothers?” There was a time when 304 type women were an anomaly, today they are the norm.
These younger generations are a frightening lot. I fear for my son!
Let’s be clear here! All men are not great, neither do I believe that every woman is a 304 Woman, so I am not speaking in a grossly general sense about either.
I have a great deal of experience with women, dating, having a mother, six sisters, and only God truly knows how many aunts, cousins and female friends.
This vast experience has led me to choosing a woman, as my wife, who is not a 304 woman!
To place all women in this bevy of foolish people would be criminal.
My mother was a wonderful woman who raised wonderful women. None of which is a 304 woman. My wife is an awesome, driven, beautiful woman, and not a 304 woman.
They are all, instead the following:
- Educated
- Holy
- A Manager of people.
- Beautiful
- An overall great catch who makes her own money.
- Supportive
- Strong
- A woman that understands.
- A woman who works with me, and not merely for self
- A family woman
So then, where is the real benefit in being a 304 Woman?
- You have your sexual freedom.
- 304 Women enjoy promiscuity without feeling ashamed.
- You have your new jobs.
- You have your own identity.
- You have your own home.
- You have control over your life.
- You have the right to reject whomever you choose.
- You can cancel whomever you disagree with
- You have the right to believe that you are a #10 out of #10
- You don’t need men!
So, what of these above things named do you lose if you reject feminism?
You have been fooled into believing you gained when you have lost.
- You have lost the ability to love.
- You have lost the ability to attract and keep a man
- You have lost the ability to live in peace.
- You have lost the ability to be rational
- You have lost the ability to hold yourself accountable for wrongdoing.
- You have lost the ability to be feminine.
- You have lost your allure.
- You have lost your true identity.
- You have lost everything that was special about you!
- You have lost the true you!
- You have lost the ability to navigate/develop/maintain an equitable relationship.
No man feels the need to protect a 304 Woman, but you reject men, disrespect men, and then ask them why they don’t protect you!
You no longer require the protection of a man! You got this, like you got everything else!
- When your car breaks down who is going to fix it?
- Wen your lawn needs to be mowed who will mow it?
- When snow must be shoveled are you ready?
- When the car needs to be washed where do you take it?
- When your house requires maintenance who do you call?
- When you order furniture who delivers it?
- Who takes the furniture into your home?
- Who kills snakes, rats, mice, bugs, or any unwanted vermin?
- When you face fear, who will face it with you?
- When unwanted advances or hostile male conversation comes what then?
In fairness, if men aren’t of any value, then all of the above actions must be completed by you from now on.
If the only value man has is to do things you want him to do, do it yourself.
If you are independent of men, then you don’t need them for anything.
You can’t have it both ways!
- Fight your own battles.
- Defend yourself against males/females alike.
- Pay your own bills.
- Buy your own dinners.
Oh, and let’s not leave out the delusional women who believe that they deserve High Value men.
- Men who own
- Men who own Businesses
- Men who are millionaires
- Men who earn more than you (6-digit incomes)
- Men who are well built
- Men who are attractive
In order to deserve a High Value Man, you must be a High Value Woman.
If you don’t possess any or all of the qualities that makes a man High Value then you don’t qualify as a High Value Woman!
“You must go to and through God to get what God has for you!”
The Bible speaks expressly against the very nature of the 304 Woman.
The Prov 31 Woman is totally opposite of what God would have a woman to be.
God expects that we contribute in every way male/female in creating a great environment.
“Men love your wives; women obey your husbands.”
Despite the belief that “I can demand much more than I actually give” there is a scripture in the Word which says different.
Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
According to scripture, whatever you put in is what you deserve to get out! No more, and no less!
Craziness and stank attitudes won’t get you any “Romance”, it will only get you “Distance!”
This is why there is a great Exodus of men from women in the US today. Because the internet is inundated with women filled with delusions of grandeur concerning what they deserve, even though they cannot or refuse to give the same!
The only man you could possibly attract is one with a similar attitude:
- A man seeking to use you for personal gain, and then be out!
- A man planning to cheat on you before he even has you
- A man unconcerned with you, or your feelings
- A man approaching you with an angle.
The Past Hurt, experience, loss, or pain is a trick of the enemy to occupy your mind, by doing so it prevents you from getting to the blessings God has planned in your future.
You cannot receive blessings from God living in your past!
Conclusion:
A man or woman who submits to God will be able to attract a righteous partner.
If you find it difficult to find righteousness in a partner, it may not exist within you!